When Ambition Disguises Itself as Preparation

I can sit and think for hours. I can ruminate with the best of them. I can dream and I can plan. But the harsh reality is that dreaming and thinking is never enough. One of the most frustrating parts about personal leadership is that you have no one to blame but yourself. Your shortcomings …

Making the Most Rest and Waking

There are few things that frustrate me more than waking up before my alarm is scheduled to go off in the morning. I’m talking about being wide awake yet still exhausted 30-45 minutes before the alarm. It always feels like someone deliberately woke me up before my alarm and made sure that my attempts to …

God Does Not Want Our Time. God Wants Our Attention.

My wife loves to debrief her day with me and I truly love it too. Even though we work together at the church, I don’t always know what she’s gone through in a particular day, and for that reason I enjoy our debrief. But I am ashamed to say that sometimes I sit down with …

Habit Building and the Unpredictable Life

Have you ever tried to start a new habit only to have your day be so messed up that it makes it nearly impossible to continue? Maybe you’re a perfectionist and you weren’t able to continue your habit in the same way you normally do, therefore, you don’t find the habit worth doing that day? …